I've been hurt by people. So have you. Worse yet, I've hurt others. So have you. This week has been a little heavy - I know for a fact that I hurt someone. Although my direct intent was to spare the person from what I thought was a cumbersome load, I ended up making someone feel unwanted. Being aware of hurting someone is never easy for me to digest, and I hope it never is.
So I move on with saying this: It does no good to hold anger or carry grudges. Period. Let me say that again so it can soak in a little more...
It does no good to hold anger or carry grudges.
Unless you want to become bitter, get eaten alive, and do more harm to yourself than the object of your anger, then by all means, be angry and don't let go. Otherwise, breathe deep and love much.
"Defuse it. Especially with family. In our culture, we ask forgiveness from everyone - even casual acquaintances. But with those we are closest with - spouses, children, parents - we too often let things linger. Don't wait. It's such a waste."
Don't wait.
xoxo,
Sarah
*Heads up - I will be leaving town tomorrow. When I return, I will have my hands full with 4 Shaffer kids. :) I will get pics up by Monday, hopefully. Have a great weekend - and don't forget to be thankful tomorrow! :)
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